A Brain Full of Books

26 Mar

Books have shaped my life the way little else has. Important moments have always been associated with whatever book I was reading at the time. Starting kindergarten? Well that’s A Chair for My Mother by Vera B. Williams, still one of my favorite picture books. Graduating from high school? When I think back, the cover of Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden always flashes through my mind. My first real job? The Remains of the Day by Kazuko Ishiguro pops up. And moments that may not have seemed notable were given new meaning if they were associated with a particularly important book. That random summer trip to Connecticut will always be memorable because I was reading The Giver by Lois Lowry for the first time. Christmas Eve 1994 stands out because it was the night I finished Black Beauty by Anna Sewell. In fact, my very earliest memories of childhood are, not surprisingly, of reading and re-reading my first favorite book: A Treasury of Mother Goose illustrated by Hilda Offen. These stories and characters not only shaped my life but gave my memories of it new meaning.

For a long time, I asked myself, how did this happen? Of course, a person tends to remember her favorite books as a child, the ones that moved her and immersed her in worlds she never wanted to leave (and subsequently entered over and over again). But to have books so enmeshed in my life story? Did that happen to other people? I decided to use this post as an opportunity to reflect. As a very young child I was fortunate to have a mother who read to me for hours every day and a fantastic library right across the street from my house. As soon as we were done with one batch of books we’d head over to the library where Beverly, the librarian, would help us select more. In between these books, my mother read A Treasury of Mother Goose to me every night (at my request) for years. The book became so tattered and worn that we had to replace it twice. By age two, I had memorized all the rhymes. By age three, all I wanted to do was read the words myself. When I finally started reading several years later I struggled with the ability to read silently; it was only by reading aloud that I could comprehend what the words meant. I still remember that moment when, all of sudden, I could read in my head. It was early in my first grade year and I was sitting at my desk right after recess, I had glanced at my teacher across the room and then back at my book when all of a sudden it clicked, like riding a bike.

So perhaps because reading dominated so many of my early memories my brain was primed to associate books with everything else in my life. Perhaps the fact that I had a parent who was dedicated to raising a reader had something to do with it. Or perhaps this connection went back to that early access to a wonderful library and librarian. Or maybe it was a combination of all of these things, and, later in life, friends who craved books as much as I did. It can’t be an accident that Eric, my fiancé, loves reading aloud. Or that one of my best friends in high school introduced me to Haruki Murakami, one of my favorite authors. And it certainly can’t be a mistake that I now find myself six years deep into the world of children’s publishing.

To make a long story short, I’ve been a member of the Nerdy Book Club for as long as I can remember. I will always feel a twinge when I pick up a copy of Walk Two Moons by Sharon Creech or Maniac Magee by Jerry Spinelli or Nine Stories by J.D. Salinger. These books still sit on my bookshelf with all of my memories resting between their pages. And now I wonder, what’s to come? I’m getting married this summer, what book will forever be associated with that event? And what about you? When you think back on the major events in your life, the births, deaths, loves, and new beginnings, what books do you associate with them? What titles shape your life story?

Kellie Celia has had the pleasure of working in children’s publishing for the past six years. She spends most of her days connecting with amazing authors, teachers, librarians, bloggers, booksellers, and kids who are as passionate about middle grade books as she is. She is currently the marketing communications manager for the publishing team at Walden Media. You can find her on Twitter @WaldenPondPress or on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/waldenpondpress. 

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19 Responses to “A Brain Full of Books”

  1. Maria Selke (@mselke01) March 26, 2012 at 5:36 am #

    Love this post, Kellie! I think my strongest new memories are of books I read to my own sons. Picture books, longer read alouds… I hope they look back on them as fondly as I do!

    • kellieatwork March 26, 2012 at 10:21 am #

      Thanks, Maria! I have a feeling they will :) . Read alouds make such a difference.

    • kellieatwork March 26, 2012 at 10:26 am #

      Thanks, Maria! I love this – I have a feeling the books you have read aloud will spark wonderful memories for your sons for many years to come. One day perhaps they will read them to their own children :) .

  2. KevinHodgson (@dogtrax) March 26, 2012 at 5:57 am #

    I’ve noticed that the books that shaped my childhood came right back around when my first son was born, and then continues with the other two boys. There seem to have been some decades where those significant books of childhood seemed to have been “lost” to me, for whatever reason. My boys helped me rediscover those tomes again as read-alouds and recommendations. I’ll be forever grateful to them. (And who knows — the next cycle might be grandchildren some day. Hopefully, not too soon.)
    Kevin

    • kellieatwork March 26, 2012 at 10:29 am #

      What a beautiful reflection, thanks, Kevin! And what a gift that your children helped you rediscover the books that meant so much to you. What titles from your own childhood have you most enjoyed sharing with your kids?

  3. gillis March 26, 2012 at 6:01 am #

    I think one of the joys of teaching is that I get to pass on the stories I love to a whole crop of unsuspecting readers. Books are not just the backdrop for the important things that happen in our lives, they can help us make sense of them and can become powerful vehicles for growth. Loved your post!

    • kellieatwork March 26, 2012 at 10:36 am #

      Thanks you :) . I think your comment is such an important one, books play an incredibly important role in our growth and development as children and adults. How wonderful that you get to connect young readers with the books that will shape their lives.

  4. CBethM March 26, 2012 at 6:46 am #

    I do this, too! I think the other things going on in your life color not only the way you’ve read that book, but also the way you look at the memories from that time.

    The one that sticks out the most for me (this morning anyway) is the fact that I was reading The Pilot’s Wife by Anita Shreve as we flew to Massachusetts for our honeymoon.

    • kellieatwork March 26, 2012 at 10:50 am #

      I love your description here: “other things going on in your life color not only the way you’ve read the book, but also the way you look at the memories from time to time.” This has been especially clear to me when I re-read a book later in life, my memories associated with it change and the book comes to represent something different.

      What a lovely memory associated with The Pilot’s Wife, thanks so much for sharing. I frequently wonder what books I will take on my honeymoon :) .

  5. Sayantani DasGupta (@Sayantani16) March 26, 2012 at 11:50 am #

    Lovely meditations on reading-as-living! (I read, therefore I am?) Your comments about reading aloud remind me of a father-daughter featured in the NYT a while ago who read together every single night without fail – well into high school – they called it “the streak” and it helped them share essentially a common family language of literature. cool, right? I wonder if that could be a model to start a marriage? :) http://www.nytimes.com/2010/03/21/fashion/21GenB.html?pagewanted=all

    • kellieatwork March 26, 2012 at 4:26 pm #

      Sayantani – I’m so glad you mentioned this article. I remember reading it several years ago and it has stuck with me ever since. I think it’s a wonderful model on which to start a marriage! Thank you for the suggestion :) . You’ve reminded me to share this article with Eric – I think we should get an early start!

  6. Deb Tyo (@ChocolateAir) March 26, 2012 at 9:33 pm #

    I love this quote from Cornelia Funke: “…books are like flypaper–memories cling to the printed page better than anything else.” -Inkheart

    Memories cling to Pat the Bunny. I remember reading this book over and over to my first child, Taylor, in my husband’s rocker recliner. The guidance counselor gave this book to me when my daughter was born making me promise not to keep the book from her even if she tore it up. “Let her touch it. Let her hold it. I will buy you a new one when this one is torn and used.”

    Memories cling to Goodnight Moon. My second child, Tessa, ended up loving that moon in the board book so much that we often stood at the window at night saying, “Goodnight, Moon!”

    Memories cling to Oh, David! My third child, Taran, loved David. He would giggle when David was wrapped in toilet paper, “Oh, David!” He would scream at the top of his lungs when he saw David in his loaded diaper, “P.U. David!”

    Memories cling to How to Heal a Broken Wing. I read that book so many times to my third daughter, Tori, that she wound up reading the book to me just as many times!

    Thank you, Kelli, for this wonderful post and bringing back so many fond book memories!

    • kellieatwork March 29, 2012 at 11:56 am #

      Beautiful quote – Inkheart is one of my very favorites :) .

      I’m so glad reading this post could unearth so many fond memories of sharing books with your children. I love how a number of people have commented here about books associated with a child’s birth or books one read to their children as they were growing up. I imagine that all of the titles you mentioned will have special meaning for your kids as they get older and reflect back on their own childhoods. Thank you so much for sharing these lovely moments :) .

  7. Cynthia Alaniz (@utalaniz) March 26, 2012 at 10:53 pm #

    I really enjoyed your post today, Kellie. I absolutely love the idea of associating a book with a moment in your life, much like one would associate a song. I especially loved this line:
    “These books still sit on my bookshelf with all of my memories resting between their pages.” I like thinking about that: my memories between the pages of loved book.
    Thanks for sharing your story.

    • kellieatwork March 29, 2012 at 11:51 am #

      Thank you so much, Cynthia. Your kind words mean a lot to me. I’ve always been warmed by the idea of my memories resting with the books on my shelf, much as they do in my old photo albums.

      When I was writing the post I also thought very much of music. Songs have also been very much enveloped by my life story as well, but more so with particularly powerful moments rather than life events. I guess I would liken a song’s association much like that of a short story: it captures a particularly important scene (albeit that scene may be part of something larger), while memories triggered by a book are more like a full length novel incorporating everything associated with a particular event.

  8. Sondy March 27, 2012 at 1:47 pm #

    Oh, I loved this, too. I’m not sure if I associate times with books as much as books with times. Thinking of a book makes me think of when I first heard/read it. For example, I associate Caps for Sale with Captain Kangaroo reading it on TV, even though I have no idea how old I was (very young). I remember when I kept going in to the hospital with preterm contractions with my second son, I purposely brought in a favorite book (The Blue Castle) to give it good memories. (I tried this when labor actually started, and then it was too intense to read. But it worked for the preterm contractions.) And then, yes, once you have kids, the personal memories blend so beautifully with memories of sharing your favorites with your kids.

    • kellieatwork March 29, 2012 at 11:46 am #

      I’m so glad to hear that :) . I love the perspective you take here. It sounds like your plan for The Blue Castle worked (at least for your pre-term contractions)! I imagine whenever you see a copy of The Blue Castle today, you are brought back to your second son’s birth. Now that you have children, do you ever read Caps for Sale, or any other books that were memorable for you as a child?

  9. Jen Robinson March 28, 2012 at 6:04 pm #

    This is lovely, Kellie. I do that, too. Especially with audiobooks (because I think those imprint themselves more into my brain). So I can remember reading particular audiobooks on particular trips, etc. But I think it’s safe to say that the one I’ll never forget is reading aloud “The Secret Garden” to my daughter in the neonatal ICU (2 years ago next week!).

    And I am so envious of you growing up across the street from a library!

    • kellieatwork March 29, 2012 at 10:51 am #

      Thanks so much, Jen! How could I forget audiobooks! I definitely have had some similar experiences (listening to The Graveyard Book on audio during a particularly difficult time in my life comes to mind, actually).

      What a memory to have of The Secret Garden, I have a feeling it will be a special book for your daughter too. Congratulations to both of you on her second birthday!

      Yes, I was a lucky one. I don’t think I realized how fortunate I was until I left home, but since then I have been forever grateful to have had such ready access to books and wonderful librarians throughout my childhood.

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