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Chocolate Cake by Julie Falatko
Is all reading important? You bet. Because you never know which words will steer your life in a new direction.
A nonfiction (grownup) book came out in December 2015 called First Bite: How We Learn to Eat by Bee Wilson. One of the things Wilson talks about is that we dislike food we’re forced to eat. As soon as pressure is involved, that food becomes a kind of punishment. Vegetables are good for you, and so you have to eat them. I don’t care if you like them or not, buster, you have to eat them. And so of course you don’t like the punishment broccoli as much as the celebratory cupcake.
I immediately thought of reading, and books. Books are good for you, but how often are books the Brussels sprouts in a kid’s life? Books should be the chocolate cake. There is a chocolate cake book for everyone out there. I’m sure of it.
Most kids see through our attempts at, “Hey! Look at this fun food! They’re little trees!” They also don’t buy it when we say, “Oh, I think you’ll love this book that’s nothing like what you normally love to read.” But if there’s no pressure, you’ll try the broccoli. You’ll try the new genre.
Anytime we tell someone that what they’re reading is wrong, that’s it’s not nutritious enough, we make them like reading a little less.
In middle school, I was already an avid reader and budding writer. I read Cricket magazine and realistic contemporary novels by Norma Klein and Ellen Conford. I wrote the beginning paragraphs of many stories about topics important to me, like how pigeons might be evil, or the dangers of sports. I also spent a lot of time at my friend Andy’s house. Andy was an only child like me, and there was something comforting and familiar about his house, the boy version of the no-sibling experience, the slightly wealthier version, with more things and different things. A drum set. A television in his room. VHS tapes of Monty Python, Airplane!, and The Young Ones, and back issues of MAD magazine, which all made me laugh, a certain brand of intelligent ridiculousness that made me feel like a genius for laughing at it.
I’d never seen MAD before I saw it at Andy’s house, and I mostly liked the clever page-folding gimmick at the back. I wasn’t particularly politically savvy or even pop-culture savvy, so I missed a lot of the references.
But it was in MAD magazine that I had a revelation about what I find humorous. I read a comic by Don Martin called One Evening at Home. In it, a lady is cutting her toenails. Her husband is drinking a beer. One of her toenail clippings goes on the floor. Another goes into his beer. “Edna, that’s disgusting!” he yells. And then, there it is, the turn, the twist, the thing that made me think this was some new form of humor: “You only got one out of five!” he says. “You’ll never make State Finals with that kind of shooting!” Edna turns to walk out, dejected, showing the back of her shirt, where “Toenail Clipping Team” is written.
It’s dumb, I know.
But it grabbed my shoulders and gave me a shake. Something about that setup, where you think it’s one thing (she’s clipping her toenails) and then that thing seems to be confirmed (her husband says it’s disgusting) and then it turns out to be something else entirely – I couldn’t stop thinking about it.
There’s something incredibly smart about that dumb comic.
Here it is, more than thirty years later, and I’m still thinking about it.
Silly + unexpected. That was my new rallying cry. Seventh-grader me wrote a novel about kids campaigning against vegetables, who, at the end, were treated to a delicious buffet feast by a lady president, who then informed them that the meal was made entirely of vegetables.
I wrote a joke-heavy story about a wisecracking stable boy who lived in a town where everybody mispronounced everything, and who saved the day with his knowledge of ducks.
I wrote an angsty teenage story about kids on a bus ride, but it turned out to be a bus ride to HELL!
I am so lucky that no one ever told me what to read. No one said, “Read this, not that.”
MAD magazine is not kale. It’s chocolate cake for sure. But it was necessary, just like all reading is. I would be a different writer, a different person, today, if I had not read that Don Martin comic in 1983.
All reading is nutritious, and while I do think that a varied reading diet is healthy, sometimes you only want to read one kind of thing, and that’s okay. Anyone with a kid who eats only cheese for three months knows this. That kid just needs cheese. Their diet, over the course of a year, balances out. Comics lead to graphic novels to adventure stories to Tolkien. MAD leads to a writer like me.
And so now my first book has been published. Snappsy the Alligator (Did Not Ask to Be in This Book), illustrated by Tim Miller, is out from Viking Children’s Books. It’s silly + unexpected, just like you’d expect.
There might be some broccoli in there. But I hope it’s your chocolate cake.
Julie Falatko is the author of Snappsy the Alligator (Did Not Ask to Be in This Book), illustrated by Tim Miller, which is available today. Her next books are The Society of Underrepresented Animals, illustrated by Charles Santoso, and Help Wanted: One Rooster, both of which will be published by Viking Children’s Books. She is a fan of chocolate cake in all its forms.
Click to check out how Tim Miller finishes Mr. Schu’s sentences.
Click to check out Mr. Sharp’s 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 Interview with Julie Falatko.
I am so happy that someone else thinks that any reading a child does is good for them. I was in a bookstore last weekend in the children’s section. The father stood with a list from the teacher trying to find “good” books. While he kept pulling books off the shelf from the list his son kept pulling out Goosebump books. He told his son that it wasn’t on his teacher’s list. As a teacher who agrees you have to let kids read things they enjoy to entice them to read books you think they will enjoy I stepped into the situation. I informed them I was a teacher. The boy had been so beaten down by his lack of being allowed to read what he wanted he just sighed. I asked him which was his favorite Goosebump book then pointed out my now grown son’s favorites and mine. His eyes opened wide. I then looked at the father and told him I was one of those teachers that kept Goosebumps and picture books in my room because if I could just get them reading something they liked I had more success getting them to take recommendation. I looked at the list with him and told him which books I loved from it. The father then told his son he could pick two Goosebump books for home as long as he picked one from the list to read at school. The kid was all in. We as teachers have to quit telling kids that “it is not real reading” or not appropriate because it doesn’t fit what we want. I will be getting your book. And by the way, I teach middle school and No books are considered not good for reading.
I LOVE THIS STORY! I think kids are remarkably good at choosing the right book (as in: the book they need right now) as long as they have choice and variety and the occasional insight of a wise booktalker.
Julie, as one who writes (sometimes silly) humor, I love this post–you totally nailed it. Happy Book Birthday!
JOANNE! HI! And yay. Silly smart humor writers, unite!
🙂
Happy book birthday!! Great post 🙂
Thank you!!!
Sometimes I don’t read every single Nerdy Book Club Post (gasp!). Sometimes, I have to pick and choose because… well, full email box. But when I saw ‘by Julie Falatko’, I knew I had to read. Your Nerdy posts are chocolate cake for me, always. This post is no exception. I love it. I love the history of your writing life, I love your humor, I love the message.
I pre-ordered Snappsy eons ago. I can’t wait to read it with my daughters, who I never force to eat broccoli.
Oh, my gosh, Dana! You have no idea how much this means to me! This makes me so happy! I hope you like Snappsy also!
I love “MAD magazine is not kale. It’s chocolate cake for sure.” And no one should be told what they have to read for “pleasure”! Early in my career as a school librarian I was told by another librarian that she could not buy drawing books. i often wondered how many future Picassos or Chuck Closes were discouraged because of this!
One of the things I love about books is how many there are, and how different they are, and how a book you love might be one I can barely get through (and vice versa). I am all about lots of choice, and knowing the reader. And trying out everything! You never know what you might like (in food and in books).
I love your food analogy. And I love the writing tip about combining something silly with something unfamiliar. Great post!
Love this, (and so excited for Snappsy!) I often liken picky readers to picky eaters. They either haven’t found their favorite things yet, or they’ve been told too often what they can or can’t have, or they want to stick with what’s comfortable & familiar. I think good caregivers deal with it similarly, too. Make sure there’s a variety available, don’t demonize some and insist on others, and definitely let them see you eating/reading many many different things. Especially things about alligators. (Yum.)
I think it can be hard because there are so many BIG ISSUES surrounding both food, and reading (different issues for sure, but there are probably more parallels than I’m thinking of). And it can be so hard to just relax and let the eaters and readers pick whatever they want. Because, honestly, maybe that’s not always the right choice, right? But you offer up all the variety, and hope it balances out.
I really enjoyed this post! The food scenario makes perfect sense. The more you force something on someone – the less likely they are to want whatever is being forced. I can relate to that feeling of someone TELLING me to do something. The more someone is pushing something on me – the more I don’t want to do it. No one likes to be forced into anything. I am a Kindergarten teacher who is really trying to get these students to want to read. I think there is something so important about allowing students to choose what they want to read – even when they are just starting to build their reading skills. It keeps it fun and motivating. I try to take my students to the library once a week and let them choose from two large bookshelves. They can choose picture books, leveled readers, informational books, etc. We try to have free reading time several times a week – they get to read whichever book they choose with a stuffed buddy (a stuffed animal) I agree with initial point of this post – all reading is important! Especially with my kinders, they need as much exposure to reading materials as possible.
I love that your kindergartners read to a stuffed animal! It’s so interesting to see what my kindergartner brings home from the school library — a lot of the time they are books I would never have thought she’d like. And sometimes she’ll bring home something she knows one of her older siblings will like, so she can cajole them into reading it to her.
It’s one of the things I love about libraries — my kids can bring home books that I would never ever buy (because I honestly don’t like the books that much) but we can have them in our house for three weeks. Libraries are also such a great place to try out different books and genres.
Loved this post. I’m happy you had that moment of realizing what kind of reading made you go “Ahh!” Also Snappsy is so clever. When I was a bookseller, I encountered a lot of parents who thought they knew exactly what their children NEEDED to read. We always tried to encourage parents that yes, that graphic novel is actually quality! This silly book is excellent! Bookselling also showed me how much power adults have over children’s reading experiences. I loved it when a child would push back because they were confident about what they wanted to read. Looking forward to your future work!
I’m so glad you like Snappsy! And I completely agree — as parents we sometimes get wrapped up in what our kids need to have, and we forget that the children are pretty darn smart about what their needs are.
And I think I’m going to shout, “THIS SILLY BOOK IS EXCELLENT!” at anyone who asks about my book.
Please do that. It sounds like the BEST plan!! 😀 haha
I should get one of those big sandwich boards, to wear around.