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Mr. Browne’s Precepts
In my novel Wonder, a teacher named Mr. Browne begins his first day of teaching English to his 5th grade class with a lesson on precepts. “Does anyone know what a precept is?” he asks the class, and after some discussion, he informs the kids that precepts are “rules about really important things.” In a nutshell, precepts are words to live by. You can find a precept in a book you’re reading, in a song you’ve heard, or in a fortune cookie. It doesn’t matter where, but if a phrase rings true to you, and it can help guide you in making a decision, then make it your own personal precept.
Mr. Browne then tells his class that he’s going to be giving them a precept every month until the end of the year, and every month they’re going to discuss the precept and write an essay about what it means to them. Mr. Browne’s Precept for the month if September is: “If you have the choice between being right or being kind, choose kind.” It’s a quote by Dr. Wayne Dyer, and Auggie Pullman thinks it’s a nice quote.
That chapter in the book ends there, but if I had extended it I could easily imagine how the rest of the discussion would have played out. Mr. Browne would start by asking what the students thought the precept meant. Did they like the precept? Did it apply to how they lived their lives? Then he might have started talking about the obvious benefits of the precept. If everyone adopted that quote as his or her own personal precept, he would tell them, wouldn’t the world be a better place? Imagine if nations adopted it as a mandate, wouldn’t there be fewer conflicts? Some of the kids would agree, adding that if nations chose to be kind “instead of right,” it might even end world hunger. Other kids would argue that being wealthy doesn’t have anything to do with being right, and there might even be a little sidebar conversation about whether might really does make right.
From there the discussion would move to Mr. Browne asking the students how hard it would be for them to choose to back down from an argument with their moms or dads or brothers or sisters, if they knew they were right and the other person was wrong? Would they give in just to let the other person save face? Why?
It’s not so simple a thing to choose to be kind, Mr. Browne would then tell them. It’s one thing to back down from an argument with someone you love, or a friend, because you don’t see the point in “winning” the argument at the cost of your friend’s feelings. But what if you believe in something that no one else believes in? What if you’re the only one who knows you’re right? Should you back down, just to be kind? What if you were Galileo, and you knew you were right about the planets revolving around the sun even though the rest of the world thought you were crazy—would you back down? What if you were living in the 1950s and you were the only one in your town to believe that black people should have the same rights as white people—would you back down, just to be polite? What if you were standing up for something you believed in—would you really want to back down, just for the sake of kindness?
All this would lead a lot of the kids to question whether the precept is good, after all. At which point Mr. Browne would tell them that maybe the most important word in the precept isn’t the word “kind” or the word “right.” Maybe the most important word in that whole sentence is the word “choose.” As with all things in life, he would tell them, every choice you make needs to be weighed. Every decision needs to be evaluated. All that precept is telling you, Mr. Browne would finish telling them, is that it’s better to choose to be kind than to choose to be right. But the real point is that you have the choice. Do you choose to be kind?
And that would have been the end of that introduction to precepts—at least in my book. The truth is, I started “collecting” precepts when I was a teenager. I didn’t really call them precepts at the time: I just wrote down things I liked: phrases, words, inspirational quotes. They always got me thinking. And I always thought that if I had been a teacher, I would have used precepts as a way of inspiring some real independent thinking in my students—thinking that wasn’t just about what the kids read or what formula was the right one to use. But thinking about character, about the dramas played out in the lunchroom everyday, about the impact of what we say and do in other people’s lives.
For a list of all of Mr. Browne’s Precepts and where they came from, log onto my website at www.rjpalacio.com. It’s still a work in progress, but I’m working away at it, and will have it functional by the pub date of Wonder, which is February 14th. And if you have your own personal precept you’d like to share with me, please email me at rjpalaciowebmail@gmail.com or post on my facebook page http://www.facebook.com/WonderbyRJPalacio. I’ll be listing personal precepts on my website in coming weeks.
R.J. Palacio
R.J. lives in NYC with her husband, two sons, and two dogs. For many years, she was an art director and book jacket designer, designing covers for countless well-known and not so well-known writers in every genre of fiction and nonfiction.
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Mr. Schu is premering the Wonder trailer today on Watch.Connect.Read.
Mr. Sharp has posted an interview with R.J. on sharpread.
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Nerdy is giving away two galleys of Wonder.
Rules for the Giveaway
* The contest runs from January 30 to 11:59 PM on February 1.
* If you win Wonder, we will send you an email.
* You must be at least 13 to participate.
Thank you for your post and your book. I can’t wait to share it with my class and my school.
Thanks Mr. S! I hope they like it!
hi i love your book so much nothing like it i hope you have a good day
hi my names deanna i was hoping i get to meet you but since we can’t then lets be friends by:)
I am extremely excited to read this book. It looks and sounds tremendous. I have been talking about it already and wish that the 14th would be here already…I will be buying Wonder and some roses for my wife (we will both be happy)! Thanks for writing what will soon be a wonderful and IMPORTANT book!
I can’t wait for the 14th, either: both because of the book and MY roses! Hope you like the book. Thanks.
YES!!! YES!!! YES!!!
Where’s my paper bag? I need to breathe. . .
You know. . .for as much as I use this paper bag, you’d think I’d gussy it up a little.
If we ever meet, I’ll be sure to bring a very nice, gussied-up paper bag. You deserve it!
I just started the book last night and loved the chapter –loved reading more about your thinking on the idea here. Can’t wait to read more!
Hoping to win a give-away, but if not, it’s on my to-buy list (sorry library, this one is a keeper).
Love this post and the discussion in the classroom. The word choose is absolutely the most important, and most difficult, word in the precept. Can’t wait until WONDER comes out.
Katherine
Yep, I think “choose” is the key. Getting kids to “choose” to do the right thing. Hope you enjoy the book.
I sent you some words via e-mail that are important to me. I loved hearing about your book, Wonder. It sounds like it might be an important readaloud for various levels of students. Each year when I taught (I’m now a literacy coach) my students chose a quote to live by during the year. They prepared them in text & illustration & they were laminated & taped to their places in the classroom, to be visited & discussed often. It was a thread that helped to build community in our class, & to discuss, just as you discussed in your post, the varying approaches the quotes meant for us.
It sounds as if I will soon be wondering at WONDER….I can’t wait to see it after the ‘wonder’ful interview shared here. It’s a great way to start a new week…anticipating a read that is sure to tug at my heart, and maybe even leave me breathing into a paper bag! I cannot wait.
thank you for sharing these thoughts. Mr. Browne’s precept reminds me of one of my favorite lines from that old play/movie, “Harvey”: “Years ago my mother used to say to me, she’d say, “In this world, Elwood, you must be” – she always called me Elwood – “In this world, Elwood, you must be oh so smart or oh so pleasant.” Well, for years I was smart. I recommend pleasant. You may quote me.”
I look forward to reading Wonder.
I LOVE that. I’m going to list it as a new precept on my website at some point. Thanks!!!
There is just something delicious about getting a peek at an author’s thinking beyond the story on the page. Thank you for sharing. This is already a beloved book before it has even reached my hands!
I am sharing a bunch of book trailers with my students tomorrow and added Wonder to the list based on all the tweets about it on twitter! Can’t wait to read it!
Too funny. I quoted, “If you have the choice between being right or being kind, choose kind.” this evening to my son and husband during a conversation. It stuck with me.
Thank you for your post and most of all thank you for Wonder. It has touched my life.
Sounds like Mr. Browne will be next on our list of Cool Teachers in Children’s Literature at A Year of Reading!
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We are planning to read the book WONDER as a whole Middle School starting next month. Right now, we are in the midst of planning this and of course working on gathering over 400 books of Wonder and getting t-shirts made. Do you happen to have a discussion guide tied to each part of the book?
Thank you!
Kim
I sent you an email in response to your question.
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We are using this book as a warm-up in my 8th grade English class. My students settle down in their seats and eagerly await the day’s chapter. Even students who struggle reading aloud find the short chapters easy to manage. It’s a great way to improve listening skills, encourage participation (everyone has to read), boost self-esteem, and encourage great discussions. I also begin every month with Mr. Browne’s precept. I began in September and by the time we reached the chapter about precepts the dots were connected. We LOVE Auggie! Thank you!
I still remember when my teacher read “Wonder” to my class. It was a wonderful book, and I’m looking forward to reading,”365 Days Of Wonder: Mr.Browne’s Book Of Precepts”. (A companion to Wonder).
My Grade 7 class did a novel studies on this book and we just got our marks back from our exam! Thanks for making such a amazing book R.J Palacio
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I finished the book before the class even started it! Love the book!
THANK YOU RJ Palacio
i like reading wonder it helps me understand it
i like jack will he seems like he’s bored with school but he’s not really that bored 🙂
just finished all the book its great ive never had anything like this thanx